People’s views of love are different between ancient periods and modern times. People in the past believe that love will never change until death, most of them have promises of being together for ever. Although some of their marriages are arranged by their parents, they are loyal to their couples. The mutual respect between husband and wife makes their marriages stable, so the problems of divorce are rare in the past.
However, people nowadays advocate free love and care a lot about instantaneous feelings rather than lifetime commitment. Also, their minds are less conservative nowadays, they easily fall in love with someone, even have sex with their lovers before get married. Some of them may get marry because of being pregnant. Their bases of love are not developed completely, so they do not fully understand each other. It easily result in the consequences of having an affair. There are some celebrities in Hong Kong who was exposed their bad news about having an affair, such as Roy Chow (周永恆) and Joe Nieh (倪震).
In my opinion, I think that having an affair is incomprehensible. I think that marriage is not just a paper, it is a promise which means the loyalty to their partners that will not abandon each other. Having an affair not only negatively affect the relationship between the couple, but also break the hearts of each other. Some families torn to pieces because the husband or wife have an affair, some of them may have children. Broken marriage will also affect the children’s life, none of them want their parents to divorce. Therefore, I think the most innocent one who suffer from the tragedy is the children.
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